Question: Do you think this is cheating on my hubby?
I went to a high school class reunion and ran into an old flame of mine. We used to be very hot and heavy in high school. In fact, I lost my virginity to him and I think it was his first time too.
Well, after a few drinks we end up outside in his car making out and there was even a little petting and groping. I really felt bad about it afterwards, but there was no actual sex as in intercourse.
I made the mistake of telling my hubby about it and he blew up and told me he wanted me to have no more contact with my ex-boyfriend. At the time I was in complete agreement as my marriage means a lot to me.
Now, my ex-boyfriend has contacted me by email and we have been exchanging very hot emails. I enjoy this and I don’t see the harm. I haven’t told my husband and I feel bad.
Do you think that I am cheating on my hubby?
Answer:
You obviously still have a strong attraction to your ex-boyfriend that you can’t seem to deal with. You probably have some good memories from high school.
But if you and your husband agreed that you weren’t going to keep doing the flirting with you ex and you continue without your hubby’s knowledge, you are cheating in the sense that you are deceiving your husband about what you are doing. In my opinion, cheating isn’t just the physical act of sex, it is also deceiving your partner about what is really happening.
I think you are going to have to make a decision about what is more important to you, this little sexual fantasy fling with your ex-boyfriend or your marriage. I think if you continue what you are doing and your husband finds out, your marriage may be at risk.
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Remember, “What’s good for the Goose is Good for the Gander”!!
Get a life, or better yet, go back to high school.
If you have to question if your cheating or not then yes it is.
That’s cheating! Duh! Get a grip or lose your marriage.
But if doing things that you know full well husband doesn’t approve of may end up hurting you, correct. Look if you know in your heart that it would be upsetting to your husband and continue to have correspondence with this other guy then yes in my opinion it is a form of cheating.
That ‘s cheating
Take your marriage SERIOUSLY
NO not correct! No you are not cheating persay, but you are lying to your husband. If you feel the need to hide this from your husband, then something is not right. How would you feel if your husband was doing this behind your back?
You are being deceitful! Would you like for your husband to do this same thing behind your back? Leave that old fling alone and concentrate on your marriage.
u r cheating on him.. so sad.. stop before it gets worse!
If you’re keeping another relationship a secret, it’s cheating.
once a slut, always a slut
Looking for validation for your sleazy, strumpet-like behavior?
Wrong what hubby does not know is exactly what is hurting him. You are taking advance of the trust he has in you. You are disrespecting his love and commitment to you. I thought only men were idiots, will today I came to know a woman who is an idiot too. Does not seem like your getting any lovin from people here…………..lol
Get a divorce now… You are obviously not happy.
You are a cheating Whore!!!
If you don’t STOP NOW, you will regret it. You are not being honest with your husband. That’s lying and is just as bad as cheating. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel?
what hubby does not know, hope give you more self consious about what you did behind his back, know you r not bad, you r just not what your hubby think you are…the girl that he once fall in love with
U’RE CHEATING N IF TIS GOES ON UR MARRIAGE WILL FALL APART! TIS HAS 2 STOP!
YES
Why don’t you bang him and get it over with!
If you’re keeping it a secret, you all ready know it’s wrong.
So your husband can french kiss another woman and keep in touch with her through email and that would be okay with you?
glad you feel that way….then you won’t mind that your husband and i have been kissing and emailing each other, also!!!
Well …think of the whole situation turned around. What if HE went to his high school reunion…and HE engaged in some kissing with one of HIS classmates…and comes home and continues to keep in contact with this person. How would you feel….and what would you think about him doing that?
So if your husband buys hookers for Bjs and you dont know about it its ok???
And if he is having an affair and does not tell you? After all whatever wifey does not know will not hurt right?
You’ve answered your own question. If you’re hiding it from him then it’s cheating.
LD
Unfortunately, you ARE cheating: sneaking around, hiding things from him – and what if he finds out? Do you not think THAT will hurt your husband? If you place any value on your marriage, you need to stop what you’re doing and honor your husband and your marriage!